There may be a multitude of varying signs of that you could have during you connect your higher self and no two would ever be the same, but one sign that you see universally throughout the world is loneliness. When you start the process of awakening the spirit within you loneliness is bound to spread in you. The most unavoidable state of mind is loneliness when you go on developing how to stay connected with God. So you can judge, loneliness is important. Loneliness is a basic factor for awakening spiritual power. So in the article below, I am discussing loneliness and you. In short, I want to give you the message that learns to love being alone to feel the power of loneliness.
Why being alone is good?:
It is a universal truth that it is better to be alone than to be in the wrong company. Yes, it is better to be yourself than to be with people whom you have nothing in common. In my opinion, when you are with yourself, you are able to connect with your higher self fully without the intrusion of unsuitable consciousness of other people around you. Therefore, it is highly important that you should choose to be with the right kind of people around you. The wrong company only lowers your state of consciousness and shrinks your awareness. We are always get affected by the collective consciousness of the company because whenever we are surrounded by other people discussing some subject, our mind becomes part of the group mind. Group mind always distracts your own thoughts. Being by yourself actually frees you from the group mind, that is why you can connect to higher self best when you are alone.
Loneliness is the life experience:
The feeling of ‘being alone’ can produce deep pain in life. Perhaps that may be a death of partner, brother or sister, or a close friend. Going through this loss hurts your heart, and you cannot have always a chance to share it with someone else. Or this other person may not understand your feelings. Another reason can be a long-term illness, which can also increase your feeling of loneliness. At all these moments we have a chance to meet our inner world, what is there deep within is and what wants to be seen. It is like returning into the emptiness of the old & quiet house. Nobody is waiting for you there to listen to your story. The experience of togetherness with a family or a partner is deeply woven into our memory. The nearness of others satisfies our need for warmth and attention.
Better to be all-one than alone:
There is one type of being alone that is good and gives a feeling of healing. Through meditation & remembering divine forces we can make contact with our higher self. That is what going from being alone to being all-one. Surely the new world in which we live can help to transform the feeling of being alone. You can check this by taking a long walk in the calm & quiet place of forest in the proximity of nature, that you will love so much. The greatness of this nature you will see around you will touch you deeply. You will feel at one with yourself and the surrounding nature. You gradually will discover to be alone is to know your inner & higher self. You will feel like the divine core with which you are connected. It is the relationship that you have with yourself.
The path to this inner source goes through meditation, services to others, nature and creative activities. This is about transforming yourself alone and turning towards a new sense of life. Everything always flows and everything is always moving in a human being’s life. When we go along with these changes in life and are open to all the alterations, small or large, our world becomes a little nicer.
Loneliness helps your personal development:
Loneliness is an inner journey towards your higher self that you make in your personal development. If you grow fast as a highly sensitive human being, you get a different frequency in your brain, they call that higher vibrations. This is what is called, a different and higher consciousness. That is the transformation of that moment. From that point, you are therefore in a position to grow further. From this point, you continue with your present life, towards your next transformation.
Especially experiencing the connection with your higher self and being one with yourself is a huge transformation and expanding yourself. As soon as you become one with yourself, you are better and permanently in your strength of oneness. Living from that power gives you a finer and more beautiful life than living in fear of loneliness or emptiness. No doubt, that can raise feelings of loneliness. But it is precisely when you transform yourself. At this point, you notice that people or situations no longer suit you. This leads you to compromise with yourself for a very long time until it really doesn’t affect anymore. Then it’s time to release and say bye-bye so that you can make a space for whatever can come from life. That initially looks like loss and can result in feelings of pain. But that is temporary. Hard to feel, but short-lived.
It is not at all difficult to practice:
New human beings, positions and moments will definitely come into your life. It is up to you to tackle these. To grab new opportunities or to stay with the old. It is totally up to you. This transitional phase can feel lonely. But it is also a chance to become one with yourself. A chance to go inside you and simply experience your feelings of sadness and joy. If they come up, just sit somewhere alone and let it come up and go through your breathing. That’s all. This process will take not more than a few minutes.
Focusing inside is important:
Generally, we have a habit of looking outward throughout our life. This is because of our ego which force is to focus is on physical things. These things include, how we look, how much money we have, social status, etc. but these things all fade eventually during spiritual awakening. We’ve also been raised from childhood to look outward for guidance on to consistently look to others for our decision-making. Experience of loneliness changes us this attitude of dependency. All the bonds we have attached to throughout our life get cut away from is. That includes the big house, your job, your position or the people in your life who you’ve become emotionally dependent on. It might sound brutal to you but it really is a good thing to happen. This is because when we can no longer rely on other people and when there really is nowhere else to go to, we finally turn inward. This is that point where the real transformation begins. This point takes is from our shy and mild behavior to fully independent person. This leads us to have different power, the fulfillment of our greatest passion & gives meaning to our life. This is only possible when you search inward & find yourself & your higher self. This will unearth all the amazing power you have within you. of course, you have to keep patience because good things get time to emerge within you. But be sure this is bound to happen
Loneliness & Spirituality:
When you were born, you all had companions around you, angels and guides. You got easily connected from the light, your light. When you were born, that connection was also easy. It is said that until your 7th year, your 7th chakra remains open so that you are still connected to your soul, then it closes through which the ego can develop. That is why it is difficult when you get older to recognize and hold this connection. The moment you lose this connection, you can feel completely alone. This will lead you to start to go inward. Going inward, you find connections on an entirely different level. It is this level your loneliness departs you from the normal physical world. You began to awaken your intuitions and reconnect to spirit. When it begins to feel that no one here in this world can help is, we start searching for help on other planes. This happens automatically, depending on the deepest feeling of loneliness as well as the strong will-power of the need of help from another plane. This is, often, the time when we begin noticing meaningful peace, getting signals and messages, feeling unnatural existences, or simply that feeling of oneness.
This, of course, is not possible with all the people. Sometimes when life is too comfortable we are not in need to change. If we have plenty of belongings in the physical world, we tend not to feel the need to connect so much to the spiritual world. This is for the people who are in search of the purpose of their life on the earth. Who are in search of what is divinity?
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